Tuesday, 29 May 2012

The little things You tend to not notice.

It such a wonderful feeling to know you are a good person.
I am no longer the dorky little kid from primary school who had no friends.
Im the person that people like. Will go out of their way to talk to.

This evening I met a girl I have never met before. She wasnt going to sit with us at dinner but decided to but said she probably would not talk much. I had a very plesent conversation with her. When me and my friend got back she told me I was really good at making people feel comfortable and getting people to talk. I had never noticed it before.

The other night I was complaining about being short and fat. The girl I was telling turned around and told me that I wasnt fat and that My prettiness made up for the height. I went into shock. I have never had someone who barely knows me tell me I am pretty. It was such a nice change.

While standing in the hallway tonight a girl who I have seen but never talked to walked past. I was polite and said hello. She looked quite shocked about. I hope I made her night.

Its amazing how much one persons opinion can change anothers veiw on themselves. One word can send a girl to throw up her last meal. Send someone to cry themselves to sleep. So why not make those words nice. imagine if instead of telling someone they are a bitch you tell them how lovely they are to be around. One good deed can make a persons day, week, even year. My mother trys to tell at least one stranger every time they go out how lovely they look. It means a lot when a complete stranger complements you or even smiles and says hello. I made someones day the other day because I was grinning like a manniac and the smile caught. It made her day.

So try to notice the little things in life, how your friend smiles, how your sister laughs. And make the effort to tell them. Make there day. Its amazing how noticing the little things about others helps you to grow.

2 comments:

  1. Very true. Very very true. You are an amazing person hun, and, you have come really far and it makes me smile to think that you are continuing to make peoples days. :D

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